How many networking meetings should I have each week?

If you are in search, you have asked this question.  The responses I received ranged between five to thirty meetings a week.  My initial thought was “That’s quite range”, but I realized these answers represent two schools of thought for networking: “Specific Focus” versus “Gaining Exposure”.  

Specific Focus: Meetings with a high probability of moving you toward a new job.

One: Meet with a potential hiring manager – may not be an opening, but a firm where you want to work

Two: Meet company insider to gain insight on a company to learn how to get into the company, tailor your application and key items to include on your resume

Three: Meet company insiders after applying for a role to build your ‘brand’ inside the company

Four: Meet with an advocate who can pitch you inside a company directly to the hiring manager

Time required: 5-6 hours a meeting – schedule, in depth preparation (research, developing questions, etc.), travel, meet and follow-up

Gaining Exposure:  Meetings which build your presence or ‘brand’ within the market.

Because most people do not know of an immediate opening, these meetings accomplish the following:

One: Increase the number of people who know what role you seek and where you want to work

Two: Increase the size of your primary and secondary network – great for finding future connections or people that you can connect with others in your network

Three: Help make connections into targeted companies, specific people or certain types of people (e.g. marketing in software firms).

Time required: 3-4 hours a meeting – prepare, travel time, meet and follow-up.  If you have meetings with very similar connections, it may be faster.

How many meetings a week?

You need to start by dividing your week into three parts:  Business development, Maintaining contacts and New Contacts.  In a 40 hour week, about 10 -15 hours are spent on business development (finding who to meet, reaching out to new contacts, follow-up on open invitations to meet) and maintaining contacts. (updates to network, making introductions, or other activities to continue to build the relationship).  

With the remaining 25-30 hours, assuming you do not have any interviews in the week, the number of meetings depends upon the type. 

How can you get 30 meetings in a week?

The number sounds intriguing so how can you get it done?  It’s really a combination of the following:  A) They have to be all ‘Exposure’ meetings.  B) Many are by phone call – to eliminate travel.  C) Keep several meetings to ½ hour in length D) Reduce time spent on business development.

Using the phone and limiting time (especially when you can get more) will likely reduce your effectiveness.  It makes it harder to establish an initial relationship, due to less time, level of attention, and ability to make an emotional connection.

The greatest number of meetings I had in a week was 25.   All were face-to-face and I got a ton of new connections. However, by Friday, I was exhausted and probably less effective in making my pitch and I did not do any business development – which resulted in fewer meetings in the upcoming weeks.  Early in your search, you will have more ‘exposure’ meetings, so you should expect to do more meetings.

The best number to focus on

In my first search, I made the mistake to get fixated on a specific number of networking meetings.  I should have been only fixated on the results: The number of positions discovering and opportunities to meet with people making hiring decisions (whether or not there is a current role).   I know that this sounds like a no-brainer, but in the depths of networking, it’s easy to get focused on the means, not the end.

Good luck today.

Mark

Batter up. Here comes the Pitch.

I hate buying jewelry.   Why, because I dread the “Cut, Clarity, Quality” pitch (if we ever meet, ask me about my wife’s first wedding ring).   When they start to talk, I simply say in my head “blah, blah, blah”.

After you meet a large number of people, when they explain their business it will begin to sound similar.  So you’ll be in danger of my ‘blah blah blah’, so I recommend that instead of listening that you ask about their client base, experiences, etc.    You bring their pitch to life.  They don’t know you’ve heard it 20 times, so simply expect it.

Now, flip this around, make sure you don’t deliver the ‘blah blah blah’ in return.

Phone vs Face-to-Face – Pros/Cons

During my outplacement, I had a running discussion/argument with my friend, Nancy Burke (from Lee Hecht Harrison) about face-to-face versus phone meetings.

I prefer face-to-face meetings, as I feel they build a stronger connection.  A point that most people agree they do as well.   Now the downside to face-to-face meeting is scheduling.

The most face-to-face meetings I had in a week?  25.   Obviously, I had some serious scheduling mojo to get that many in a week and not be racing between meetings (70 mph is only kind-of-racing).

The upside to phone calls that gain greater exposure to the market, as you can easily reach more than 25 networking contacts in a week.   Also, a phone call can precede or lead to a meeting later on.    

While a call may not build as strong of a connection, do not underestimate the benefit of greater exposure, especially when you hear about a possibility.

No matter whether you meet someone by phone or in-person, the preparation work to get ready for the meeting remains the same.  

If you do make a call, you will need to follow up more often to establish a reason for that person to remember you beyond the ‘4 week window’.

Networking Meeting – What’s Interesting and What’s Relevant

Here’s how I rated my networking activity:

Getting an introduction – Interesting

Setting up meeting – Interesting

Preparation for the meeting – Relevant

Having the meeting – Interesting

Actions following the meeting – Relevant

 

The preparations before and actions following are where to focus your attention as they have the most benefit toward getting results.    Here are three tips to help you:

One: Schedule time on your calendar to prep for a meeting – I cannot emphasize how important this is.

Two: Spread out your follow-up across your week.  Try to avoid waiting until Friday to send all your follow-up notes, by then you are usually tired and less effective.

Three: Record all of your prep and follow-up.  As your networking continues, trust me that things tend to run together you cannot remember everything – no matter how good your memory!

Here are two tools I developed during my search, to prep and follow-up:

·         Networking Meeting Checklist

·         Daily Point System

Hopefully, these will serve as good starting points for making something work for you.